Why did a diehard New Yorker decide to move to Miami?

Why did a diehard New Yorker decide to move to Miami? 

From when I was a teen, I just had to get out of Brooklyn and move to “The City.” 

This was before Brooklyn became Brooklyn and was just Brooklyn. 

All the art that resonated with me was either about escape or romanticized city life. 

Saturday Night Fever, Born To Run, Annie Hall, and Bright Lights Big City all lead me to one conclusion - I have to say goodbye to Avenue J and move to Manhattan. 

Avenue J? Well, my elementary school was on Ave I, and I lived on K, so that made it difficult to circumvent. 

My high school was on Avenue J, and the 6 bus I took to Brooklyn College went, you guessed it, right through  Avenue J.

I knew the best pizza/bagel places, where to get the lowest price on Spaldings for punchball, and which candy store under the tracks made the best egg creams. 

Avenue J was etched in my mind and was my universe. It kicked ass on Avenue M, but maybe Kings Highway had us beat. 

At 21, my dream came true - My childhood friend, Ikey, and I found a studio apartment on 8th Street off Broadway in the city. Life took off! 

It felt like the city was a replicating organism that just kept producing one place better than the other. 

Restaurants from Caramba, Bar Louis, to Canastelles, Cafe Iguana, clubs like Palladium, Limelight, and a 5-floor gym called Vertical Club, were such a feast for our senses and such innovative concepts, that this Avenue J guy mistook it for the  Italian Renaissance all over again.  

It felt like every week, a new place opened that we had to be the first ones to check out. 

We ate, drank, danced, and met so many people from all over the world, and if we got the free fruit plate for dessert from the chef in Canastelles, we felt like kings.

Was I  a party animal? Umm, yes, in the beginning, but I also fancied myself a growth, cultural, liberal arts intellectual, kind of guy. When age made those drinks start hurting the next day more and more, I pivoted towards more enlightened pursuits and mind stimulation. 

Throughout my years in the city, I took literature classes at the New School, film classes at NYU (Hitchcock and Film Noir were my favorites), French lessons at Alliance Francaise, lectures at the 92nd Street Y on Sunday nights, and got a post-graduate certificate at NYU School of Continuing Ed. 

These were not obscure treasures that one had to seek out, but were literally packed/sold out, with educated people who were there to learn for its own sake.

I was never bored. Culture, education, depth was infused into the very fabric of New York. The Angelica Theatre, Quad, and Film Forum were always showing foreign, classic, and obscure movies. I remember seeing Amelie at the Paris Theatre at 9:30 pm, which had a sold-out crowd. 

The music scene was also incredible with small venues like  Mercury Lounge, Irving Plaza, and Roseland. 

If not there, I was at the Comedy Cellar, Gotham, or the Comic Strip, which was a 5-minute walk from where I lived. 

I saw a swing dancing exhibition at Swing 46 one night by pure chance, and subsequently became an avid student in partner dancing, going to dance schools like Dance Manhattan and Dancesport, learning Swing, Salsa, and the Cha-Cha. 

I ended up winning some amateur competitions and even performed at SOB’s. 

I don’t believe any city in any era could have given me this array of choices and kept life so new and exciting consistently.

After moving to 15th street and 5th Ave (a one bedroom, woohoo!), then  Murray Hill (big mistake at the time), Ikey and I ended up on the upper east side with separate one bedroom apartments in the same building. 

Life became more subdued, although we still enjoyed the city immensely. 

Usually, Tuesdays were Serafina on 61st (where the cool European, cigarette smokers dined in the front), then  212 or Ferrier on Thursday nights. 

Saturday night, we might have gone a little crazy and hit up Sams, Living Room, Lotus, or Tao. 

A typical Sunday was Soho brunch or Central Park, sometimes coffee at Barnes and Noble with a stack of books and magazines, then dinner at Mediterraneo, or Baraonda’s Sunday night party, which went on all night long.  

Dating, gym, tennis at Roosevelt Island, charity events, Hamptons summer shares, all rounded it off to make our life’s existence truly feel like a mixture of Seinfeld, Friends, and Sex and the City all at once. 

I really had a charmed life and believe I lived in the best of all possible worlds, geographically, economically (most of my friends became very successful), and chronologically. 

I would not have wanted to live in any other place at any other time.

But alas, things started to change. I’m not sure what it was exactly, but it was instead a combination of factors. 

I think age had a lot to do with it, as most of my friends, including Ikey, got married, and as Chris Rock brilliantly said, “I was the oldest guy in the club”. 

But I don’t think it was only that. I know you do not step in the same river twice, but this new river felt muddier and murkier. 

Perhaps the internet/smartphone that depleted some of the educational and artistic vibrancy that once made the city’s fabric so rich. 

Maybe it was the proliferation of homelessness in my neighborhood and on the 6 train that I used to take to work every day. 

Maybe it just wasn’t as fresh and new to me anymore. 

The seasonal moodiness was getting worse, and I just wasn’t excited about taking a class at the New School anymore, or another share in the Hamptons. 

Baraonda, Per Lei, Medittaraneo, and Serafina didn’t have the same vibe to me and left me feeling meh. I was played out. 

Around that time, my parents would rent an apartment at Turnberry in Aventura for the winter, and I would go visit them, perhaps more often than they liked. 

It felt great being in shorts and a t-shirt, by the pool, or playing tennis outdoors in the middle of winter - that first day of sleepaway camp feeling.

People felt less stressed here, and everything was spotless - no garbage on the streets, potholes, scaffolding, or honking. 

At night, I ventured out - new neighborhoods like Wynwood, Design District, Brickell, Midbeach felt fresh, different, and exciting. 

Restaurants like Komodo, Zuma, Villa Azure, and Papi Steak retained the old Canastelles vibe, featuring dancing, music, and a bar scene that felt both sexy/fun, attracting an older crowd. 

New hotels like Faena, Edition, St Regis, and the One were magnificent and designed to be enjoyed, even if you're not a guest, with live music and great lounges. 

Aventura Mall, Bal Harbour, and Brickell City Center made shopping fun again. 

I started looking for apartments, and I liked that the condos all had valet parking, allowing you to go anywhere in town and park for free or a nominal fee. 

My New York building was charging me $600 a month for a spot, and parking became impossible when venturing out in Manhattan.  

A pool, jacuzzi, gym, den, closet space, and incredible views for less than my apartment on 2nd Avenue got me thinking. 

My apprehensions stemmed from loving New York and New Yorkers, which made me worry I would feel alienated in Miami. 

I went to the synagogue, tried Match and JDate, and connected with friends of friends, which made things feel more comfortable. 

The recurring anxiety and depression I felt when landing back at La Guardia, and in the yellow taxi back to 2nd Avenue, kept reaffirming my tinkering with possible concrete changes. 

Was I going to pick up and move SOLO to Miami?

The seed of that idea kept growing, sprouting, as I kept building my case for finally leaving New York. 

Ultimately, I decided to try it for a year. Although I would face moving costs and the possibility of having to find a new apartment if I returned, I thought the small risk was worth it. 

If I were happy there, the tax savings alone would pay off financially. 

I actually would rent an apartment in Sunny Isles for a few weeks to try for one last trial run. 

Eating outside at Miami Juice on a beautiful, sunny day, seeing some people I knew, and anticipating going to the beach with them that afternoon, I made my final decision: I am doing this!

That was in late 2013. I have to say that not only do I love it here, but I always encourage everyone I know to do the same. 

For the same rent I paid in Manhattan, I now have a two-bedroom in a brand new building, with a gym, movie theatre, pool, and lap pool (no more swimming circles with three other people in one lane at Equinox), billiards room, and free valet service. 

I play tennis or swim every day and go to enjoyable restaurants, lounges, or rooftops most every night. 

Weekends are at the beach, brunch overlooking the water, or a bicycle ride to Key Biscayne. 

I have a social event-filled synagogue, just one block away, where I keep meeting more and more New Yorkers who are moving here every day. 

There is always a new place opening that is a must-see, and it’s easy to make friends, as almost everyone here is an expat looking for new friends too. 

When I go back to New York, I do relish moments of it, like a nice day eating lunch in Bryant Park, but after 5 days, I want to go back to Miami. 

I feel like I hit the refresh button on my life. I really can’t foresee ever wanting to move back.

Miami is my new home!

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